Sapphic Speed Dating 2026

After lots of discussion with the community, we are pleased to announce our latest round of Sapphic Speed Dating at Safe Haven Inclusive Market on November 21. This afternoon speed dating event gives you the chance to connect with members of the community for a romantic connection.

This year's event will feature a ROUND ROBIN format, guaranteeing that all members of your cohort will meet all members of your cohort. Safe Haven Inclusive Market is an accessible dry venue and includes a concession, a dirty soda bar, and a shop stocked with goods from local queer artisans. 

We will also be asking all participants to provide a brief bio that will be printed on their envelopes and made available to other participants. This gives you the chance to share information about your preferences, what you're looking for, and also help you distinguish between the three Emmas you chatted with.

By popular demand and to help you meet your person/people, we will be dividing participants into cohorts based on your age group and whether you’re monogamous or polyamorous. If you consider yourself part of the "older" demographic and are interested in polyamorous dating, select the Polyamorous - Older ticket.

* If you are interested in a discounted ticket, please connect with ELEN directly and we will help.

Itinerary

Arrival & open mingling for all participants. Take the time to browse the market, participate in some light ice breakers, and connect with new friends from other cohorts.

Round 1. Participants will move to their assigned tables and do the first series of dates. If your partner for any date did not show or it's your by-round, take the opportunity to get a snack, hang out in the general mingling section, or take a break in the quiet room.

Intermission Mingling. A brief intermission to recuperate, relax, shop, and mingle with the participants from all cohorts.

Round 2. Participants will move to their assigned tables and do the second series of dates. If your partner for the afternoon did not show or it's your by-round, take the opportunity to get a snack, hang out in the general mingling section, or take a break in the quiet room.

Wrap Up. Place your contact information in the envelopes of your choice, mingle with participants from all cohorts, and make plans for the rest of your evening!